Donor-bridge-acceptor complexes (D-B-A) are important model systems for understanding of light-induced processes. Here, we apply two-color two-dimensional infrared (2D-IR) spectroscopy to D-B-A complexes with a trans -Pt(II) acetylide bridge (D-C≡C-Pt-C≡C-A) to uncover the mechanism of vibrational energy redistribution (IVR). Site-selective ¹³ C isotopic labeling of the bridge is used to decouple the acetylide modes positioned on either side of the Pt-center. Decoupling of the D-acetylide- from the A-acetylide- enables site-specific investigation of vibrational energy transfer (VET) rates, dynamic anharmonicities, and spectral diffusion. Surprisingly, the asymmetrically labeled D-B-A still undergoes intramolecular IVR between acetylide groups even though they are decoupled and positioned across a heavy atom usually perceived as a "vibrational bottleneck". Further, the rate of population transfer from the bridge to the acceptor was both site-specific and distance dependent. We show that vibrational excitation of the acetylide modes is transferred to ligand-centered modes on a subpicosecond time scale, followed by VET to solvent modes on the time scale of a few picoseconds. We also show that isotopic substitution does not affect the rate of spectral diffusion, indicating that changes in the vibrational dynamics are not a result of differences in local environment around the acetylides. Oscillations imprinted on the decay of the vibrationally excited acceptor-localized carbonyl modes show they enter a coherent superposition of states after excitation that dephases over 1-2 ps, and thus cannot be treated as independent in the 2D-IR spectra. These findings elucidate the vibrational landscape governing IR-mediated electron transfer and illustrate the power of isotopic labeling combined with multidimensional IR spectroscopy to disentangle vibrational energy propagation pathways in complex systems.